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    March 17

    1202 signatures so far:

     

    UPDATE: The fight bigamy group suggested that I continue to get signatures, and that the surveys get sent out and returned, and included with the petition. I agree if we can back up the fact there are indeed scienctific proof, then the government will take us more seriously. Those of us that have gone to government officials and so forth to get justice have often been laughed at. So please continue to keep signing. For all those that have already signed, and we h ave a bunch, thank you thank you. I went to print out the Petition, and it stated that I needed money, since I had fewer than 2500 signatures. If I ask for 1,298 more signatures, it will not cost me a dime to print out the petition. At least 100 stamps is 43.00 dollars, and since this is coming out of my pocket, I have to do this a little at a time. I am not a wealthy person, and am just finally getting back on my feet financially after nine years of havoc wrecked on me by Barber.  Please be patient with me, I am going to mail out as many copies as I can  per payday.   I have to wait now to get the money to get a clean copy of the petition printed so that I can send the hard copy to each of the Representatives. The first one that I will send it too, is the President. Then the senators that have shown an interest, and then to the rest of the Congress. I am sorry about this taking so long. I said that I would start mailing it, however, the surveys are not all in, the victims of bigamists should go to the FIGHT BIGAMY site and inquire about how to get a survey sent to you, so that we have more data that this type of crime is NOT RARE. It isn't a crime that needs to continue to be ignored  So please KEEP SIGNING THE PETITION>

     We are clearly getting close to the finish line for the signatures and then I start my mail in blitz to Congress.  I want to wait until  the Bigamy surveys are all in and hope that I get a better response from Obama  than I did from President Bush which was nothing. Here's to the promise of change and this petition gets passed as a law. United as in voice,  we will be victims no longer.

    We have enough  signatures for the petition to be sent to Congress., but I am still allowing people to sign.  . We have a new Congress starting with a new President that promises Change. I hope he keeps his promise, because this is a Change that is needed. Thank you to all that have signed the petition. Thank you all for signing the petition. I HOPE OUR VOICES will Be HEARD!!!!!

     

     Although I appreciate support, some people want to  develop their own petition without doing the necessary work that is needed.  We have done the research and we have contacted other websites that promote awareness against bigamy and sociopathic  people who prey on others. It is not our intention to seek glory or fame. We worked hard on this and have asked that others raise their voices united with us. Please be wary of other websites that take content without permission and tout their horns in regards to another petition. This petition has been talked about in the Congressional Records, and Senators, and Representatives are aware of the petition. We need the neccessary signatures for them to say ok, we will see about passing the bill for a National Database of Marriages and Divorces.  There is NO extra tax involved in this as someone erroneously stated on her site and in comments. We have done extensive research before we developed this petition, and I asked other victims for support. The Fight Bigamy Group, LoveFraud Group, Cyberpath group, and others have contributed to this petition. Together victims can help change the law. That is what we are hoping for. Please sign the petition for the National Database of Marriages and Divorces. Again those of you, who have signed thank you very much.

    Quote " Inaction sap the vigor of the mind." Leonardo Da Vinci.  To do nothing is to enable the criminal.

    SIGNATURES NEEDED PLEASE SIGN

    It is a travesty that this crime of bigamy is the hardest one to prosecute. This crime affects a whole family, friends and anyone that their victims and the criminal knows. It is ridiculous that victims have to prove they are the innocents when the guilty get off with very little consequences for the fraud, and lies they told to others. Somehow, we need those signatures to show Congress that victims of crimes are not going to take being laughed at, and told that nothing can be done, although this is a FELONY in some states. There is a need to make this a felony at the National Level, and punishable by more than 6 years in Prison. These predators continue to prey on other victims and they do so:  some do it for years because the consequence was almost nil. My ex did not use his real name for 35 years, and when on parole he skipped out of state, committing another identity fraud and conned another person, and all he served was 10 months due the the fact that where he was bigamy was not a felony. This is ridiculous and if enough victims band together we can be taken seriously. PLEASE SIGN THIS PETITION  We need your voice.  

    As of today, 12-07-2008 The Petition for a National Database of Marriages  and Divorces is only 49 signatures away before I start a mail in blitz to all of the congressional representatives including those at state level. Not all states see bigamy as a felony, and it is a shame that so many con artists take advantage of innocent people, and committ fraud.  We need this petition to get noticed. The more signatures the better that Congressional Representatives will listen. PLEASE PLEASE help victims have a voice. Sign the Petition.  The Victims are increasing in their voices to let themselves heard. It would be a shame if the bigamy laws do not change. It helps prevent those that commit polygamy, bigamy, identity theft, fraud from harming families. Not just the victim but countless people. Crime should not be rewarded but punished. Good people should not be made fun of when trying to report a crime. I remember that I was told not to be so gullible by a detective when I reported what Barber did to me. Barber had a rap sheet a mile long, and I didn't have one,  yet I was ridiculed. We need to change the laws so that victims can feel closure. It is so hard to make a difference when so many people just do not want to be involved. We need more people to be involved so that this crime does not pay for those that commit it.

     
    PLEASE if you had been a victim, know a victim, and even heard stories on any of the talk shows, including: Dr. Phil, Montel, 60 Minutes you know that this is a fast growing crime. These people use fake identities, or social security numbers that are not theirs and marry other people. Sometimes while being married to another person. Their game is to blame. They always blame the victim for the crimes they commit.  It is time to try to put a stop to this crime, it may not stop everyone, but it will stop quite a few it will make a difference. Please go to : http://www.petitiononline.com/its2bad4/petition.html and sign the petition.
     
    Together a united front always give Congress a pause to think about the laws that need to be changed. Together our voices can be heard! Sign and get us closer to the goal to change these laws that allow others to fraud, and steal from victims. They victimize more than one person in their crime spree and they do not care!!!

    SIGNATURES NEEDED FOR THE PETITION!!!!!!

     

    Quote "THE TRUTH WILL SEEK YOU OUT FOR THOSE WHO LIE FOR THEIR LIVELIHOOD"

    I set the new limit of signatures, we are up to 1080 signatures, and I want to try to get 2500 which is just 420 more. This shows that there are TOO MANY Victims out there, and NOT ENOUGH JUSTICE. The Predators continue to get away with the crimes they permit, mostly because it is a 'sweetheart' crime. This is why we have to convince the government that the laws need to be changed!!!!! MAKE YOUR VOICE GET HEARD. Sign please. Thank you to those that have.

     

    SIGNATURES NEEDED PLEASE SIGN

    As of today, 2-6-08 The Petition for a National Database of Marriages and Divorces is only 279 signatures away before I start a mail in blitz to all of the congressional representatives including those at state level. Not all states see bigamy as a felony, and it is a shame that so many con artists take advantage of innocent people, and committ fraud.
     
    PLEASE if you had been a victim, know a victim, and even heard stories on any of the talk shows, including: Dr. Phil, Montel, 60 Minutes you know that this is a fast growing crime. These people use fake identities, or social security numbers that are not theirs and marry other people. Sometimes being married to another person. Their game is to blame. They always blame the victim for the crimes they commit.  It is time to try to put a stop to this crime, it may not stop everyone, but it will stop quite a few it will make a difference. Please go to : http://www.petitiononline.com/its2bad4/petition.html and sign the petition.
     
    Together a united front always give Congress a pause to think about the laws that need to be changed.
    March 09

    Spring Time Trouble Time

    Con Men or Women con anytime, really, but springtime is the time for new awakenings. So this is the time you don't let Spring Fever go to your heart and think with your head.
     
    1. Con men and women always say what you want to hear:  You are my soulmate, I will love you forever.   They always have a remark to come back with when you question some of the stories they tell.  Some of them had years to perfect their game. Don't fall for it. If you cannot access their families, if you notice that they have a lot of acquaintances, but no real friends, the red flag warning should come up right about now. 
     
    2. If they isolate you from your family:  my ex tried to isolate me from my youngest son, but not my oldest son (he claimed to have a better rapport with my oldest son) and my parents he allowed because they never said anything. Although my father saw through one of his lies: His POW check paid for his son's support money. Which is a lie, because his other ex was able to sue him for child support arrears of over 50,000 dollars. 
     
    3. When my youngest son came to visit the last Christmas he was with us...(my ex was already planning to leave me high and dry) my youngest suspected he was up to no good. My sons didn't want to see me hurt, but assured my ex that he better not hurt me. 
     
    4. Don't trust what they say right off the bat.  I realized that even though I insisted on a background check, he furnished me with a social security number that was not his!!!! Beware of dark waters they hold traps.
     
    5. Think with your head and not your heart. ALthough against a skilled con artist it is hard to be logical because they are good at spinning their web of deceit.
     
    Remember love is unconditional, it doesn't put boundaries around you, it doesn't isolate your friends, and most of all doesn't try to change you. People that think they can change others with love, and those that con do try to change you to fit their convenience...yes you are just a convenience to them so that they can get what they want out of you. When the well runs dry they will evacuate for wells that are not.   Realize that even if they are with you, they  are finding someone else while they are with you.
     
    Spring time is in the air, but be cautious and try to educate yourself on how NOT to fall for a conman. They are a dime a dozen and a lot of lonely people out there
    are their targets.
     
    Happy SpringTime Folks. Happy St. Patricks Day:
     
    Loving You
     
    I never thought that loving you was hard to do,
    But the hardness of it all was your heart,
    You used, abused the trust I had in you,
     
    Little did you realize that you didn't have me beaten down,
    I am not summissive to your wiles, not anymore,
    I really am glad you walked out that door.
     
    I never thought that loving you was hard to do,
     
    My heart was an open door for you,
    To tantalize and mess up and screw,
    Me out of security, left me high and dry,
    When you knew my fear of homelessness,
     
    You didn't care, you don't and won't understand,
    The humanity of caring, the humanity of true love,
    In my insecurity I realized you were more insecure,
    You are the one who couldn't face the truth,
     
    I understand that you have to victimize another person,
    It is your lifestyle, because you cannot be honest,
    And lead a life you could have.
    A millionaire a hundred time, easy come and easy go.
     
    Legitimately it could have been so, but greed turned
    You into a hunting machine, to shatter innocent souls.
     
    But I am a better person, and understand now,
    That love that is really love is really worth waiting for,
    That you were just a blink in the eye of the storm of life.
     
    I have a heart, I have a soul, and that is something you couldn't take away.
     
    watch and listen, your time is coming, your reckoning day is here.
    Donna Layne Roberts copy righted  2003